Chubby or Fat? What does it matter?

I don't know if it is just me but I don't like labels, being called chubby or fat isn't nice, I am what I am curvy, and no this is not some lame way to defend myself from people's words I just like to write what I think is true. Why do so many people make a big deal out of being bigger, okay I get sometimes you can be unhealthy but that doesn't automatically make any of a bigger size a dying person. Fuck crackheads are unhealthy and you can see how skinny they are. I feel as if people make it bigger than it has to be, No I am not chubby so don't start with the cuddling and the touching my stomach saying I like your blubber and No I am not fat so don't start staring me down estimating how much weight you think I need to lose. I am what I am, I have boobs that obviously guys like those and I have and ass, I assume they like that too, my stomach does not need a name of it's own or anything else. I feel like I am always pressured to automatically feel like I never look good so that even when I do, I just disregard it. If I want to lose weight I will do it on my own time, not because my mom thinks so, or the person next door. Plus what is so bad with a little meat on your bones, at the end of the day the person living with my weight is ME. Not anyone else. So all the thoughts, words, and names, can just go up your ass.. Because if I can't accept and love myself then why should anyone else.?

" Love is not just knowing your different, Love is accepting your differences and making the one that made you feel weak, your strongest ally"